Welcome to my journey…

Thanks for joining me here blogging my day-to-day life handling kids while working at home during this difficult time. Keep in mind that not everyone’s style will work the same. I am just happy to share what worked and didn’t work for me here. Anyone is welcome to comment and share their experience here.

NOTE: Please no nasty comments. This is a friendly blog for anyone to share and help each working parents with kids home out there.

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

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Day 3: 3/18/20

Today was another challenge. I know that everyday will be different. We just have to deal with it as we go along and adjust the schedule a bit as needed. Just remember we’re blessed that everyone at home is healthy and safe. Today was a longer day as parents have “homework” to do to setup kids google classroom.

So here’s my day:

9am – Last minute O’s teacher text us to try out google classroom. She wants to do a test run on google meet at 9am so we all did. LOL.. It was semi of a fail since this is the first time since the kids saw each other or be able to talk to each other in couple of days. As some of us remote workers know, when everyone talking at the same time it’s chaotic. We can’t hear each other. We have to understand kids will be kids. They get excited as now its out of their norm. They don’t get to see each other Mon – Fri anymore nor have lunch together, etc. Kids were so happy to be able to see their teacher since last Friday. We did a 15 minutes test run with the class and teacher had to sign off and figure a better solution.

9:30am – 12pm – The girls did their assignments that I put together (since remote learning doesn’t officially start til next Monday 3/23). They were finished within an hour but luckily I had backup plan. Girls love arts n crafts so they took out the craft bin and stayed in O’s room to get creative using construction papers.

12pm – 1pm – Lunch was on schedule since I had this hour as work block. Was able to serve some quick lunch. I learned to do some meal prep on Sunday/Monday nights. So this week, I got a rotisserie chicken, cut it up and used it for the first half of the week. I made chicken soup with mai fun (Chinese thin white noodles). It was simple, just heat up chicken stock, add the ready blanched mai fun and add the chicken into the soup. Within 10 mins, lunch is served. Also, once they’re done with lunch early, they get free play until “recess/lunch” is over. This motivates them to eat faster to earn play time.

1pm – 2:30pm – Independent reading for 45 mins then have the girls write sentences using the words of the week. I must admit they were quick with their assignments but thank goodness I got backup plans ready and had them do free writing about how they like homeschooling. It was indeed interesting and fun to read coming from them.

For the rest of the day until I’m done with work, girls had free play and was allow to be on their devices to play Roblox or Minecraft. This is something the girls look forward to everyday now. I just know it can’t be work all day.

Alexa’s writing on “why I like homeschooling“

Since we didn’t take a long outdoor time today, I managed to make some dinner so we ate around 7pm today. Tonight’s dinner: Veggie soup, chicken fried rice and shrimp. Easy 30 mins meal.

Tonight’s dinner

Once the kids are down for the night, I had to start doing my “homework” for the kids. Teachers been sending tons of updates via Remind app (a communicator between teachers and parents). Because I have 2 kids, that means twice the work. I had my glass of wine and snack next to me while on FaceTime with my girlfriend to figure how to set up these kids. Yes, this was another opportunity for social distance. Turns out we have a classroom code that we have to join for each subject that the kids have. I had to get familiar myself for my kids. It was a learning curve for me as well.

Its only day 3 and I can tell you all so far I’m feeling ok just because remote learning does not officially start yet. I can tell you next week will be a whole new world. More to come.. Good night!

Tips:

  • Always have a backup plan as kids can finish their assigned activities quick or there’s no set time. Must act quick because kids do not have any patience. Jot down somewhere and make a list of any possible activities that your kids be interested. I can tell you my list have grown tremendously since Monday. If you need ideas, any social platform (ie. Pinterest, Facebook parent groups, Instagram) is a great place to get ideas.

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Day 1: 3/16/20

Like hundreds of thousands of kids (or even more) being home starting this week, a lot of parents are panicking on how can we juggle work and kids. It is a huge stress for many parents. The night before, I had setup my dining table for the girls as their work station. To keep their daily routine uninterrupted, we had a meeting with the girls the night before to go over their school schedule. We came up with a schedule that they must follow from 8:30am – 3pm. Here is what their schedule looks like (its subject to change as this is totally new to me):

Working schedule for kids

We cannot stop our daily lives from what’s going on. Everyone including myself and kids need a regular norm. Nothing can stop us. I’ve been telling the girls this: “Mommy works from home most of the time so now they will have to do the same for time being. They will have to learn to adjust to do whatever they can from school at home until things died down. Just pretend you are sitting in school but at home environment. Nothing should change. I will assign your school work daily on the table and you will have to learn to follow the schedule we agreed on.”

Honestly, my little do not understand what that meant for her and everyone in this house. Day 1 was a transition period. Thank goodness for O to help guide her sister throughout the day. My big helper got me through the day by following the schedule hourly and see what to do next.

Setting up for next day.

Tips:

  • Be stern about the schedule. If 12pm is lunch, make sure its consistent everyday.
  • My method schedule is probably good for kids 8 years old and over. I don’t anticipate kids younger to be to follow.
  • Instead of following exact school schedule as we do not have the bell like school to remind them, make it easier for elementary school kids go by the hour. Teach them to read the first digit on the clock. This will help big time.
  • Its extra work for parents but plan ahead the night before, print or setup anything and lay it out on their “desk” in preparation for next day. Whether it is math sheets, books, etc.
  • DO NOT change their “school” hours to do anything outside school work as they will think that’s allow. Things like watch tv, FaceTime friends, play, etc. These are not allowed and must let them know after school they can do so.

Day 2: 3/17/20

It will be a short post today just to jot down my highlights today.

Day 1 was semi successful for me. I must admit it is hard but we cannot be hard on ourselves. Reminder it is a difficult time, just know that I tried my best to keep things going. It will NOT always go as expected. Never ever be harsh on yourself.

Things didn’t go as expected today. Schedule was a bit off. Kids didn’t settle until almost an hour late. Alexa had a little melt down starting her day but we finally settle her down. She was a bit upset that her older sister was all setup for google classroom but she did not. I’m happy to see she is ready to go back to school and see her teacher. Day was ok after. I came up with an idea to do reading buddy with her close friend and encouraged her to read her book which kept her occupied for 2 hours. She was anxious to catch up her reading with her friend since she heard her friend finished that book. Now I got her all excited for the next step with her friend.

Since it was a sunny day, we decided to take the girls to the nearby school yard around dinner time (hoping that most people are indoor eating so not a lot of people out on the streets) to ride their bike. The yard was indeed empty. It was perfect for distance socializing. They were able to get some gym time in.

I forgot to post this from day 1. To ensure the kids are on top of their responsibilities. I made a little checklist for them.

What is Google Classroom?

It is a remote environment where teachers can streamline work assignments to kids. Kids can see all their classes in one place (ie. from different subject teacher). To learn please find useful link here.

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Sunday, 3/15/20

There have been so many unknowns over the past weeks regarding to the Coronavirus (Covid-19). Many questions going on in our head:

Is it going to affect many of us in the states?

What will our next few days, weeks or even months going to look like?

How can these kids continue their education?

How much time is needed to help kids with remote learning?

On Friday, day after WHO announced its a pandemic, I was contemplating whether or not to send the girls to school. I decided to send them in for half day and gave their teachers a heads up that I would like to get their textbooks just in case. I’m glad I did. With the unknowns ahead, we all wonder if there will be a shut down like some countries. I am glad that the mayor of NYC decided to close public schools til April 20th (after spring break). No one realize how dangerous this virus is and is spreading rapidly. We want everyone to be safe. Thats all it matters. With that said I’ve decided to put this blog out there and document how things have changed at home and for the kids. Will keep everyone posted…

Be safe everyone!